They say love is a rare chance to find, a phenomenon so magical that it is shared by just two people yet witnessed by the world. No matter how you see it, it is and will always be a bitter sweet memory that reminds us that we had once loved, loves and will love once again.
We all have our own story to tell, that is what I find truly interesting in every people that I meet. Some are full of great adventures to share, and some are filled with amazing lessons waiting to be imparted and no matter what their tales unfold it still deserves to be heard. If there is one thing, one very exciting topic (aside for sex, of course… ***if you know what I mean***… ) that everyone finds very appealing, it would be all about Love… most especially our First True Love.
Everybody remembers his or her first love, unless of course you got hit by a car then got run over by a ten wheeler truck and still survived. It is a once in a lifetime moment where you’re puking rainbows everywhere, singing love songs, and routinely expresses your undying love for your other half and of course, a series of firsts.
First Kiss. Whenever I ask people what their first kiss was like, I immediately notice a smile that lit up their faces. It’s a very sweet moment to cherish for most of us. They say it’s like having that electric jolt pass through your veins on that very moment your lips touch. It’s a tachycardia moment that makes your heart jump out of your chest. It is magic.
First HHWW Moment. Back in high school, whenever I see couples walking hand in hand, it literally makes me want to puke. It’s gross and for me pretty weird, but I never thought that with that simple gesture one can make you feel safe. Having someone hold your hand is like a sign of trust and respect and it is really amazing how that link can give so much impact to your feelings.
First Fight. Quarrels in my perspective are a great test of maturity and serve as evidence that your relationship is growing up. It is a chance to know what will be best for your relationship and shows you a whole new outlook about life and love.
First Heart Ache. Reality is definitely a far cry from what we read from fairy tales. That concept of living happily ever after is not as easy as it sounds. That very moment when one decided to end that love story you have been carefully writing for some time is truly painful and will forever scar. It is actually like someone ripped off your heart and left a black hole instead. It is now up to you, on how to take it. It is up to you on how you decide to handle that moment because from that time on, you have been changed forever.
These and so many others are just some of the ingredients that made our First Love unforgettable. There is no perfect formula when it comes to relationships. It is dependent on two people who is willing enough to work through their flaws and fight because of love. We may be lucky on our very first try in this crazy little moment but we should consider that failures may also come along the way. What is important is that we know when to fight and when to let go. Believe it or not sometimes we are just stuck on that routine and we are already bare inside digging our own grave. Love is indeed selfless but sometimes you need to consider your own happiness as well and ask yourself, is it still worth it or is it time to walk away and say goodbye.
as you may notice, i love to shoot kids. i just love how they exude energy and innocence all throughout, same reason why i want to focus in child portraiture… =)
just finished writing 11 articles about email encryption and secure web mails… what the heck do i know about those?!?! waaaaahhhh!
1. take a bath
3. edit my Summit pictures
7. play with air
9. update my OL shop
-wow. i’m booked!